Fred is a friend who you’ve had an on-and-off relationship with, who you said you have , and now you’re wondering how Cash might feel about that, and more importantly whether or not anything that’s happened is wrong.
If you refused him, one of you should have asked if despite the fact that you aren’t official, will you be monogamous sexual partners.
So you didn’t necessarily do him wrong there, you both just sort of made a mistake by not bringing it up. I don’t think it’s a mistake to tell someone you’d rather not be official with them, the heart wants what the heart wants, so no problem there.
There’s nothing wrong with telling someone who you don’t want to be in a relationship with them.
I’m dating a guy but we are not official (I denied his asking me to be official) .
I’ve had an off and on relationship with another guy (before I met the guy I’m dating) , and I always had extreme feelings for this guy. We chatted for a long while and told each other we love each other (as friends).
The thing is, my friend from school is friends with the guy I’m talking to and knows that me and the other guy have a history and that I loved him.She wasn’t at school today and didn’t see us talking, but she usually is and will probably see us talking together next time.So my question is have I done anything wrong, that I should worry about?Does it seem like something that should concern my friend.tell the guy I’m dating?To avoid confusion and also because I love giving people random names.Okay here’s the deal as I see it: You’re dating Cash, it’s not an official, and it seems like you don’t want things to become official, whether that’s a temporary or permanent sort of feeling.