Warning: This will seriously piss off most women and possibly some men. Usually this is the part where older (read 40+) women accuse me of being misogynistic. All you have to do is walk into one of the numerous upscale restaurants or clubs of New York City.
My clients are successful wealthy men who normally ask to be introduced to much younger beautiful women. The reason successful older men prefer to date younger women is because THEY CAN. His age becomes as irrelevant to her as last year's fashion.
They are perfectly OK with older men dating younger women.
It almost becomes irrelevant to these men (or this article) whether these young ladies are truly in love or are merely out to make better lives for themselves.
What counts is that they are sitting across from a woman who is beautiful, intelligent and alive.
She won't complain about her ex; she won't moan about how tired she is because she was doing housework all day with three whining children, and then had to prepare dinner and take the dog to the vet. This woman is out to have a good time and then come home and have wild and passionate sex on the kitchen counter or the bathroom floor. And before some of you tell me about your strong sex drive after 40, consider this: Her 25-year-young spirit comes in a shape of a 25-year-young, coin-bounce-off-ass body. But hiding your head in the sand and insisting that "real men" don't want younger women, they want an equal is naïve at best and detrimental to your own love life at worst.
So when the comparison is down-to-the-minute detail: She wins. When a man is successful and wealthy, he wants a young vibrant woman whom he can enjoy in bed and high society alike.
And another thing: No matter how old the man is, he still wants to go out with a younger woman.
I recently had a 78-year-old client who wouldn't even consider a woman older than 50.
If you are 25 years old as you are reading this, let me put this in perspective: That would be like dating a 55-year-old.
That brings me to why I can’t take on women as clients; and no, misogyny has nothing to do with it.
In this tough singles market, if a man pays top dollar for a matchmaker, he expects nothing less than a 29-year-old model. They will work for you to produce the best results in minimum time.2. No matter what your hobby, you can find a group and meet people (read "men") that share your interests.3. Whether it's dinner with girlfriends or a quiet evening by yourself at a local pub, GET OUT.
As a result, I cannot find a husband for a 47-year-old schoolteacher with two kids and three mortgages. You won't meet anyone sitting at home and complaining about not being able to meet anyone.